Intimacy Vs. Closeness Q: I consider myself lucky that my parents are still together after 40+ years of marriage. One thing that was a constant in our house was that they shared a bedroom and I always expected the same thing … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Different Bedrooms
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Q&A With Dr. Laurie: The Path To Ecstasy
Knocking On The Back Door Q: I have heard many times throughout my life (thanks, TV shows and mainstream magazines) that the ultimate, best, sexiest, most mind-blowing thing you can do for a guy is…stick a finger up his behind … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: The Path To Ecstasy
How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I Want To Be Pegged?
Of all the conversations that may seem intimidating to go into cold, asking to get pegged is right up there. So, how do you broach the topic? Sex coach Kaitlin Klarer is here with tips on how to propose pegging. … [Read more...] about How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I Want To Be Pegged?
Video: The Beginner’s Guide To Anal
Is there anything more intimidating than getting into anal for the first time? There's a lot to consider before going for the backdoor, so sex coach Kaitlin Klarer put together this handy video of tips to make your first time a … [Read more...] about Video: The Beginner’s Guide To Anal
Better Sex In 10 Seconds—Guaranteed
It takes just 10 seconds to demonstrate that sexual lubricants enhance lovemaking: Close your mouth and dry your lips. Run a finger lightly over them, paying attention to how this feels. Now, lick your lips. Run a … [Read more...] about Better Sex In 10 Seconds—Guaranteed
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Am I “Normal”?
Anal Fingering Q: Like most men, I like to masturbate. But sometimes, when I’m doing it, I put things in my butthole—mostly my finger(s). Is this normal or I am turning gay? I don't know—please help. … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Am I “Normal”?
Seven Ways To Have Better Anal Sex
Want to bring some bum joy into your bedroom? Anal sex pleasure can be a really fun exploration of an area of the body that we still have a lot of shame, stigma, and assumptions about. Everyone has a butthole—it’s the great gender … [Read more...] about Seven Ways To Have Better Anal Sex
The Butt Battle Of The Sexes
Straight women and gay men: comrades in arms, sure. But how much do other parts of their bodies have in common? Future Method decided to find out, with a focus on (what else) butt play. … [Read more...] about The Butt Battle Of The Sexes
Pegging 101
Recently I have received several emails asking me about pegging, what it is, and how to do it safely. In a popular online magazine in the UK, pegging was called “the latest bedroom trend.” The word and act have also been described … [Read more...] about Pegging 101
The Art of Pegging, Part One: Butts
The Art of Pegging Part One: Butts, or ‘Put the boogie in your butt’ à la Eddie Murphy[1] I fondly recall the first time I ever fucked a man’s ass. We were on our first date, visiting a skeezy sex shop (screw ‘dinner and a … [Read more...] about The Art of Pegging, Part One: Butts
Heterosexual Anal Play: What’s Behind Its Newfound Popularity?
How popular is heterosexual anal sex? No one can really gauge for sure, but there are some facts that we do know. Anal sex has long been considered taboo—and often still is—so people may not be honest when surveyed. But since the … [Read more...] about Heterosexual Anal Play: What’s Behind Its Newfound Popularity?
How to Prepare Before You Play
When it comes to intimacy, most of us never had access to proper education, especially when it comes to the butt. This means we’ve had to turn to adult movies, friends, or Reddit to figure out how to properly prepare, play, and … [Read more...] about How to Prepare Before You Play