There’s a tired old question every trans women fears and loathes: ‘do you a penis?’ I have lost count of how many times people have asked me this. It’s a rude question, highly irrelevant and really only concerns you if you are … [Read more...] about Trans Women, Penises and Intimacy
Trans Women, Penises and Intimacy
Mindful intimacy? There is, in fact, an app for that
Raise your hand if you’ve ever wanted to approach two or more people for a group sex scenario, but you were just plain too awkward to get it done. Same. Luckily, as in all things, there is now an app for that. Fantasy is in … [Read more...] about Mindful intimacy? There is, in fact, an app for that
Q&A With Dr. Laurie #12
Q: I've started dating a guy that is fantastic in almost every area.... except the bedroom. The sex is horrible and frustrating. It's not that he's a guy who just pounds away and it's over. It's like he doesn't even know how to do … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie #12
Are You Experiencing Andropause?
Have you ever noticed how many older men drive beautiful, expensive cars? Many of us joke about the mid-life crisis, about boys and their toys, but I’d like to take a serious look at male middle age. Most of us have heard about … [Read more...] about Are You Experiencing Andropause?
Q&A With Dr. Laurie #11
THE FIRST TIME-CAN YOU CATCH SOMETHING? Q: Can having sex with a virgin while yourself being a virgin; are you able to get chlamydia? A: If your partner has engaged in other forms of genital sexuality like oral sex, they … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie #11
LGBT Safe Sex Practices
Think about it, you can go anywhere and get educated on all different things in life, but where can you get educated about sex and safe sex practices? It can be tricky to find schools or even doctors that are able to take the time … [Read more...] about LGBT Safe Sex Practices
Q&A With Dr. Laurie #10
ANAL PLAY Q: I am interested about anal sex. Is it safe and healthy for both man and woman? Q: Hi, what do you think about the anal masturbation for man? Is it dangerous? What precaution should be taken? It's also for … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie #10
Q&A With Dr. Laurie #9
URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTI’S) Q: Whenever my girlfriend and I have very sexually active weekends she usually gets internal bruising and frequent UTIs. I've learned to hold back and not go so deep or rough but she sometimes … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie #9
Q&A With Dr. Laurie #8
INTO OLDER WOMEN Q: I am a 21 year old Indian guy. For some reason I’m really into older women. I’m trying to find someone who is in her late 30s or early 40s in my area. How do I do that? A: You could look at dating sites … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie #8
Are Open Relationships Right for You? 8 Questions to Help You Decide
As polyamory and other open relationships options become more visible, more and more people are wondering if that could be the right choice for them. And for a good reason: Consensual nonmonogamy (or CNM for short) is really not … [Read more...] about Are Open Relationships Right for You? 8 Questions to Help You Decide
Q&A With Dr. Laurie #7
SEX DURING YOUR PERIOD Q: Is it ok to have sex during your period? What are the risk for infections? Is it messy? A: You can have sex on your period if you don’t mind the mess. However, keep in mind that if you have sex … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie #7
The Pleasure Principle
All too often I hear women complain of a lack of desire or difficulty with orgasm. In this short TEDx talk, I explain how we come to deny ourselves pleasure, especially as women, and how to understand ourselves better and OWN our … [Read more...] about The Pleasure Principle