Who’s On Top Q: Whenever I’ve had sex, most of the time the guy has been on top and I’ve been on the bottom. As a result, they put in most of what I would call the physical part. It’s not like I’m not enthusiastic, and I do … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Putting In Work In Bed
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Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting Hard(er)
Getting Hard(er) Q: Hi Dr. Laurie. I’m in my mid-40s now and I still regularly get erections and have orgasms—yes!—but I’m really not getting as rock hard as I used to when I was younger. Sometimes, I would even put it at 50%. … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting Hard(er)
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: How To Know If You’re Sexually Incompatible
How To Know If You’re Sexually Incompatible Q: I’ve been with my fiancée for a few years, and we’re both in our early 30s. We have sex regularly, but she never orgasms from it. Sometimes, she uses a vibrator on her clitoris … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: How To Know If You’re Sexually Incompatible
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Experimenting With New Things
Trying Something New Q: Hi Dr. Laurie. I’m a female in my mid-30s and slowly starting to realize that, despite decades of heterosexuality, I might also be attracted to women. I live in a small town and everyone knows each … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Experimenting With New Things
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Navigating Virginity
Getting Past It Q: I’m in my early 20s and I’m still a virgin. I’ve started going out and meeting more women, but I have a problem making a move. I’ll talk to girls in the club or dance with them (at a distance…) but I find … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Navigating Virginity
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Sex Drive Side Effects
Sex Drive Side Effects Q: I recently got an ADHD diagnosis from my doctor and he gave me a prescription for Vyvanse. It’s made a huge difference in my work and home life. I can finally focus, and I’m a way better friend, … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Sex Drive Side Effects
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Lacking Sensation During Sex
Losing The “Wow” Factor Q: In a nutshell, 3 years ago I started to experience pelvic floor muscle spasms—there was no trauma to cause this. Sex became painful. I went to a physiotherapist and it helped with the pain but I lost … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Lacking Sensation During Sex
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Living With Herpes
Living With Herpes Q: My boyfriend went down on me while he had a cold sore. A few days later I ended up with three little spots on my genitals. They were painful, but not that bad. I went to see a doctor and she thought there … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Living With Herpes
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Working Towards For A Healthy Sex Life
Sex Therapy Q: I have a pretty normal sex life. I’ve had good relationships and I’ve enjoyed sex, and oral sex, and even anal sex once or twice. I want to make my partner happy and I’ve rarely had trouble reaching orgasm, … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Working Towards For A Healthy Sex Life
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: When Does It Go Too Far?
When Does It Go Too Far? Q: Lately it seems like my sex drive is out of control. I’ve always been a pretty frequent masturbator, but recently I will go days without sex, and then go into being so horny that it’s actually like a … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: When Does It Go Too Far?
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Dealing With Sexual Pain
Male Sexual Pain Q: When I get an erection, it goes pretty much straight up, like against my belly. And it gets very hard (what a burden, right). The problem is, to jerk off or have sex in pretty much any other position, I need … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Dealing With Sexual Pain
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Love On The Brain
Dealing with Jealousy Q: I have a jealous streak and I’m worried that it’s going to ruin my relationship. I came across my boyfriend’s porn history on his computer while I was using it to print a paper, and it made me feel ill. … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Love On The Brain