Lube Subs
Q: There’s that cliché about guys having lotion around to masturbate, but in all honesty, what do you think about using lotion for lube? Can I do it? Or will something terrible happen.
A: The answer depends on whether you are a male or female, whether it’s for solo play or intercourse. If this is for masturbation with a penis, then lotion is fine. If you are looking for lube to facilitate intercourse, then lotion is not recommended as it can irritate the vagina—most lotions contain perfumes and other preservatives. I would recommend you buy lube made for sex (be it water-based or silicone-based), as they are milder and perfume free.
Potential Latex Allergies
Q: I’m a virgin, and when I do have sex for the first time, I totally intend to use a condom. With that said, I recently overheard my older brother making a joke about finding out that he was allergic to latex “the hard way.” That totally terrified me. The last thing I want is my first time being ruined with a huge, gnarly allergic reaction—and what I assume is a long recovery. Since it’s my brother, I was wondering if latex allergies are genetic? Is there a way to tell in advance if you’re allergic to latex or whatever else condoms are made of other than just…rubbing one on yourself? I’d rather not find out “the hard way.”
A: Just so you know, latex allergies occur in less than 1% of the population, so it is very rare. People with this allergy react to latex protein. Usually, in its mild form, it can cause swelling, itching, and redness upon contact. In its more severe form, it can cause much more intense reactions. Rubber latex is found in gloves, condoms, balloons, and anything made of rubber. Genetics are involved inasmuch as people who have other allergies may also have this type of allergy. A visit to the doctor who can do a specific allergy test will give you a definitive answer.
L-Arginine
Q: Does taking L-Arginine help a man’s penis in any way?
A: Unfortunately, there are so many supplements out there sold to men that promise bigger, better erections, that have no scientific proof of working. As for the L-Arginine, an amino acid that helps make proteins and is said to help blood vessels relax and help with better blood flow, there are no scientific results that show its effectiveness for treating erectile dysfunction. So if that’s what you want it for, you may want to save your money.