Urinating on Partner
Q: My girlfriend asked me to pee on her so I did. She seems to be ok with it and so am I. She has not done it yet on me. We are working on it and trying new things. Is this normal?
A: In my books, anything two consenting adults do that bring them pleasure and that is not illegal or harmful to anyone else, is perfectly normal. Urophilia, or the fetish of urinating on a partner, or being urinated on, is not such an unusual fetish. You will find lots of examples of this on line for sure. This is often associated with BDSM (domination/submission) or humiliation play.
Crossdressing Full Time
Q: I have been crossdressing for a while now and I enjoy it a lot. Only on weekends though and I would like to go into it full time. Is it a good idea to do this at work? My girlfriend is ok with it. By the way, I only wear panties, half slips, and stockings.
A: First I would like to clarify something. Are we talking about dressing full time completely as a woman or just the fetish of wearing female undergarments full time? I’m going to assume you are a crossdresser and not transgendered (feeling like you are trapped in the wrong body and wanting to appear female so that the outside matches the inside). Many straight men enjoy the feeling of wearing female undergarments. For some, it is arousing and for others, it is merely something that makes them feel good. If this is arousing for you, how will you handle it if you are at work? That would be my concern.
Drinking Partner’s Urine
Q: Is it safe to drink your lover’s urine?
A: Urine is made up mostly of water, but about 5% contains waste products. Thus, although in the short term it is generally sterile, bear in mind that drinking urine can introduce all kinds of toxins into your body. It would be hard to tell if your partner has these bacteria or not, so the recommendation is to NOT drink your partner’s urine.
Sex on Your Period
Q: What’s the effect of having sex on your period?
A: Aside from the mess, there is no real danger. However, remember that many sexually transmitted infections are transmitted via bodily fluids and blood is one. So make sure to practice safer sex, with a condom, unless you have both been tested and you are in a monogamous relationship. For women, having an orgasm can actually help alleviate menstrual cramps. Many people believe that woman cannot get pregnant if they are on their period. This is false. Although less likely, it is still possible. Oh, and make sure to take out your tampon before intercourse!