Variety is the spice of life and that includes changing up your sexual positions! For some people who are just beginning to realize their love for women or those who are already in a lesbian relationship, which needs a little spicing up, there are some great positions that can make the experience very hot and heavy. Since it is trickier to have maximum contact to feel the heat, you need to be a little bit more creative to get that physical contact. Here are my top 6 positions to use with your woman.
- The Scissor is one of my favorites and most popular among the lesbian community. This position allows for both women to have genital contact and be able to rub each other’s clitorises against each other. With legs spread, you press your vaginas together and grab your partner’s leg for support. Add some hip movement and pull closer to each other and feel the grind. You can even add a double dong dildo to use together in this position for even more excitement.
- 69 – well, the number almost speaks for itself since it looks like the position! This position is where you have your face in each other’s crotch and dive in! You can lie on your sides if it is more comfortable and rest your head on each other’s inner thighs or you can have one person on top of the other and go to town! This is a great way to get each other off especially if it happens at the same time!
- The Spoon is a very hot position where you lie towards your partner facing their back and use your arms to reach around. You can fondle her breasts, have direct access to reach around and play with her clit, maybe slip in a finger or two. It may even be a good position to explore using a toy or anal play. The person getting pleasured can lift her leg slightly to allow better penetration or keep her legs tight if she needs that closeness to have a better orgasm.
- Cowgirl (Rodeo) is where you straddle your girlfriend’s leg while she is lying down on her back and you then rub yourself on her leg or pubic bone to stimulate yourself as well as her. To make it even better, put a pillow under your partners’ hips so her pelvis is angled up to have better pelvic access. The friction from the pressure between your legs can be explosive!
- Strap-on Missionary is a typical missionary position with a twist…a strap-on used with your partner in this position can feel good as you are being penetrated, but if you add a vibration to the strap-on, it can allow both partners to feel the buzz. Make sure to let your breasts get close to each other to feel your nipples touch as you move in and out of your partner.
- Doggy Style- for this position you need to have one partner on all fours and the other coming in from behind. Whether using a strap-on or a vibrator, or just using your hands to play with your partners’ clit, this position has a lot of variety! The person on all fours can be partially lying down with their ass in the air or up on all fours, which allows their partner to come from behind and finger them, lick them, use toys and more! The person on the bottom can also reach under, in between her own legs to feel for their partners’ clit from behind and tickle their fancy too.
There are so many more possibilities that you can enjoy, but these are some of my favorites! You just need to be creative and open-minded with your partner to find what works best for you as a couple. There is no right or wrong when pleasing your partner as long as it feels good!