One of the challenges to anyone that enters the BDSM world is the process of actually getting the opportunity to play a scene. The process of connecting with a play partner, using kink gear and communicating effectively can seem … [Read more...] about Kink Curious? Start Here!
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Disability & Sexuality
I was born with dwarfism, and my experience of living as a disabled sexual being is best described by my favorite movie quote of all time. In a scene from the remake of “Casino Royale”, James Bond is talking to his … [Read more...] about Disability & Sexuality
Does having gay fantasies or watching gay porn mean that I’m gay?
Sexuality can be fluid throughout a person’s life. While you may have considered yourself heterosexual when you were younger, your desires and things that turn you on may change and evolve as you age and experience life. What does … [Read more...] about Does having gay fantasies or watching gay porn mean that I’m gay?
Asexuality: the Sexual Orientation No One Talks About
Katie was drunk and used her hips to push James up against the wall –– James’ heart nervously raced. It was the office Christmas party, coworkers were drinking, and lines were blurring. James was always over at Katie's desk … [Read more...] about Asexuality: the Sexual Orientation No One Talks About
Watching porn with your lover
Yes, there actual benefits to watching explicit videos with your lover. Here’s some reasons to consider this fun, safe, and sexy activity with your sexual partner the next time you want to try something new. Enhances sexual … [Read more...] about Watching porn with your lover
Female ejaculation
Everyone wants to know: Is “squirting” real, or a myth? Can any woman do it? And just like the question from a reader below, many want to know what they can do to get their female partner to ejaculate. Q: Is the female … [Read more...] about Female ejaculation
How did porn become porn?
What is porn? This seems to be a silly question, because the answer seems so obvious—you ‘know it when you see it.’ But you’d be surprised about the amount of ink spilled and the amount of time wasted over this topic. In fact, the … [Read more...] about How did porn become porn?
One in four is too many! #metoo #howiwillchange
One of the most shocking statistics out there is the fact that, in North America, 1 in 4 women have been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. And not only that - 60% of sexual assaults occur when the victim is under the age of … [Read more...] about One in four is too many! #metoo #howiwillchange
The Cleis Press Sextionary: for those voracious for vocabulary
Ever wondered what a unicorn or a pearl necklace refers to when you’re talking dirty? Or what a fetish for heels, sound, or breaking rules is called? Or where the term ‘walk of shame’ came from? Well, there’s a great new glossary … [Read more...] about The Cleis Press Sextionary: for those voracious for vocabulary
Where did the ideas of homosexuality and heterosexuality come from?
Too often it is taken for granted that everyone in the world falls into the different camps of heterosexual/straight or homosexual/gay/lesbian. Whether it’s when you’re signing up for Facebook or a dating app, you’re asked to … [Read more...] about Where did the ideas of homosexuality and heterosexuality come from?
Anal Play 101
Curious about anal play? Whether you’ve tried it before or are looking to try it for the first time, this video guides you through some of my favorite sex hacks to make anal play enjoyable for all parties. You’ll notice in … [Read more...] about Anal Play 101
Communicating your desires
Both your long-term and short-term sexual relationships will benefit from clear communication about what you want. It may feel uncomfortable at first but with a little practice most end up feeling more confident and empowered … [Read more...] about Communicating your desires