Trying New Things Q: So, with a previous partner, we had sex that involved hair pulling, choking, and sometimes some open-handed slaps. Long story short, I was really into it, and I want more. I’m not interested in the whole … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: A Fetish For Everyone
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Introducing Royal Fetish Radio—A New Podcast on Kinky Sex!
Introducing Royal Fetish Radio, your new source for in-depth discussions and exploration into the world of BDSM, fetish, sex work, and their intersections with culture and politics. This four-part series is hosted by Jet Setting … [Read more...] about Introducing Royal Fetish Radio—A New Podcast on Kinky Sex!
Temperature Play Part II: Taking It To The Next Level
You’ve tried temperature play basics and you and your lover are in tune with what makes the other tingle. Time to kick up the heat—or chill out—with temperature play 102! … [Read more...] about Temperature Play Part II: Taking It To The Next Level
Survey: Do You Have An Extreme Fetish?
I have an extremely non-judgmental demeanor, so from when I was young, I was often the person with whom people shared their unusual stories. For example, in middle school, a friend told me that they love the taste of their … [Read more...] about Survey: Do You Have An Extreme Fetish?
Why So Serious? In Defense Of Occasional, Fun Kink
You know the type. They state it right off the bat, usually in the first line of their online profile: «I am a serious player»; «I am a lifestyle kinkster»; «Looking for a total slave»; «I seek a 24/7, TPE relationship only» … [Read more...] about Why So Serious? In Defense Of Occasional, Fun Kink
Sex Work Survival Guide: Consent Violations Panel
As a performer, how do you treat consent violations on and off set—and in the industry as a whole? The first and arguably the most important skill in SW is consent. In this panel, industry professionals from different aspects of … [Read more...] about Sex Work Survival Guide: Consent Violations Panel
Kink Has Rules—Your Own, Mostly
A few weeks ago I read the odd story of a lady who wholeheartedly hated coffee for the first few years in the BDSM scene. She said it was because: “I need my caffeine hit like everyone else, but I had been told that true dominants … [Read more...] about Kink Has Rules—Your Own, Mostly
How Do I Talk To My Partner About My Fantasies?
We’ve all been there. When you start a new relationship, you’re on a first date, or hooking up with someone new, a question that may cross your mind is “When do I let them know that I’m a freak?” “Is kink talk a second or third … [Read more...] about How Do I Talk To My Partner About My Fantasies?
Disgrace Without Damage: How To Keep Humiliation Play Safe
In the incredibly vast realm of erotic domination and submission fantasies, physical torments generally have much fewer fans than psychological games. In fact, while whips and ropes may be visually spectacular and a wonderful … [Read more...] about Disgrace Without Damage: How To Keep Humiliation Play Safe
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Tell It Like It Is
Q: Do I Need to Tell? I’m in a long-term relationship and the sex is great as it is—pretty normal stuff, all the positions you’d expect, but nothing kinky. However, when I watch porn or fantasize when I’m masturbating, it’s … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Tell It Like It Is
Who’s A Good Boy?: The History And Appeal Of Puppy Play
Pet play is an umbrella for lots of different animal role-play, and usually falls into one of three categories: household pets, such as puppies and kittens, livestock animals, such as cows, pigs, and horses, and forest creatures, … [Read more...] about Who’s A Good Boy?: The History And Appeal Of Puppy Play
The Fantasy And Reality Of Cuckolding
Like most kinks, at first glance, cuckolding looks a rather unlikely erotic practice. Why should anyone enjoy watching their partner have sex with someone else, maybe while even explicitly humiliating the official mate? Still, … [Read more...] about The Fantasy And Reality Of Cuckolding